WRITING
Write a composition on the ANSWER SHEET in about 150 words, basing yourself on one of the texts you have learned.
TOPIC: In what way is overindulgence of children harmful? The text you should base your composition on is Are You Giving Your Kids Too Much?
【正确答案】:
    OVERINDULGENCE OF CHILDREN CAN BE HARMFUL IN THE FOLLOWING WAYS. FIRST, CHILDREN WITH TOO MANY PRIVILEGES MAY, TO SOME DEGREE, BECOME GREEDY, SELF-CENTERED, UNGRATEFUL AND INSENSITIVE TO THE NEEDS AND FEELINGS OF OTHERS, INCLUDING THEIR PARENTS. SECOND, WHEN PARENTS ARE RELUCTANT TO STAND UP TO THEIR CHILDREN'S UNREASONABLE DEMANDS, THE HESITATION NOT ONLY IMPAIRS THE PARENTS' ABILITY TO SET LIMITS, IT ALSO SOURS THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP TO SOME DEGREE, ROBBING THEM OF SOME OF THE HAPPINESS AND MUTUAL RESPECT. THIRD, OVERINDULGED CHILDREN WITH TOO MANY MATERIAL POSSESSIONS ARE LESS CREATIVE IN THEIR PLAY BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT AS CHALLENGED AS THE CHILDREN WITH FEWER PLAYTHINGS. THEY ALSO HAVE FEWER OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN THE VALUE OF MONEY. AND IF EVERY REQUESTED OBJECT IS GIVEN ON DEMAND, CHILDREN WILL HAVE LESS EXPERIENCE IN LEARNING TO DEAL WITH A DELAY IN GRATIFICATION, WHICH IS VERY IMPORTANT IN ONE'S FUTURE LIFE.
【题目解析】:
建议结合课文分条列举过分溺爱对孩子的不良影响。
过度溺爱会在以下几个方面对孩子造成伤害。首先,拥有太多特权的孩子在某种程度上可能变得贪婪、以自我为中心、忘恩负义,对包括父母在内的其他人的需要和感受麻木不仁。第二,当父母不愿意面对孩子的不合理要求时,这种犹豫不仅削弱了父母设限的能力,也在一定程度上恶化了亲子关系,剥夺了他们的一些幸福和相互尊重。第三,被过度溺爱,拥有太多物质财富的孩子在游戏中的创造力较低,因为他们不像那些玩具少的孩子那样受到考验。他们也很少有机会了解金钱的价值。如果每个被要求的对象都是按需提供的,那么孩子们在学习如何处理延迟满足方面的经验就会减少,而这在一个人的未来生活中是非常重要的。